Too much motivation bites the guest:

Once in a beautiful town there was a wonderful bungalow located in the heart of the town. In that bungalow there lived a couple. There were also two dogs in the bungalow who were loved very much by their owners, and the dogs were honest as well in guarding the yard of bungalow.

Every day each dog used to get 1 kilogram of meat during the lunch. The boss was happy with his dogs and the dogs were happy with their owner. On a dark night the thieves entered the bungalow. The dogs were very active and they chased the thieves out. The owner heard the dogs bark, and saw the incidence and was very happy with his dogs. The owner rewarded the dogs for their deed.

The owner planned to keep the dogs alert and motivate them further. He decided to increase the food provision of the dogs, thus he increased the meat intake of dogs from 1 kilogram per day to 1.5 kilograms per day. The dogs were happy; owner too was happy.

First of all the 1 kilogram of fresh meat itself was a good food for the dogs. The owner thought to motivate the dogs further by giving them half a kilogram extra meat. The dogs were too much active and energetic. One day the owner’s friends came from England. As soon as the England friends entered the bungalow, the dogs too were very active and energetic. And as a result the dogs chased the guests and bit them. Too much motivation bit the guest.

Even in humans we see that, we use lot of external motivation to keep the people motivated. Employees motivated at factory to increase production, children are motivated at school and home to increase learning outcome and so on. Many research studies says that, praise can create a pressure to continue good performance, to stabilize their self-image. Praise can lead to an obsession with maintaining one’s own image while tearing other’s images down (Mukunda; N.D: What did you ask at school today). This is the reason, that it is very important to use the motivation with caution. We have to encourage through motivation and also value the internal motivation of the person which drives him to do his task honestly.

Anecdote by:

Maaz Mohammed A.Q

L&D Consultant

Ccels Learning Associates- Bengaluru

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